{"id":432,"date":"2010-12-01T08:30:24","date_gmt":"2010-12-01T15:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.studioweddenver.com\/?p=432"},"modified":"2010-12-01T08:30:24","modified_gmt":"2010-12-01T15:30:24","slug":"marriage-advice-positive-projection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/marriage-advice-positive-projection\/","title":{"rendered":"Marriage Advice | Positive Projection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/ih.constantcontact.com\/fs067\/1102284488866\/img\/53.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"logo\" width=\"678\" height=\"168\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The topic of projection arises frequently on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com\/\">Conscious Weddings<\/a>\u00a0and in my counseling work with clients struggling through the wedding transition. The truth is that any time you\u2019re in a intimate relationship with a real person (as opposed to infatuated with someone who\u2019s not available), you\u2019ll find yourself irritated with your partner. Some of this irritation is a natural by-product of intimacy and will occur with anyone with whom you\u2019re close (parents, siblings, friends). And if you\u2019re a <a href=\"http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com\/the-highly-sensitive-person\/\" target=\"_blank\">Highly Sensitive Person<\/a>, the irritation will increase tenfold. \u00a0Let\u2019s face it, people are sometimes annoying: They don\u2019t do things as quickly or efficiently as you would like, they leave the toilet seat up, they call too often or not enough, they laugh loudly, they tell the same story multiple times. It\u2019s okay to feel irritated, but when you find that the irritation has crossed the line into obsession, you know you\u2019re in a projection&#8230;\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0You can read the rest of this post on the <a href=\"http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com\/positive-projection\/\">Conscious Weddings Blog<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The topic of projection arises frequently on\u00a0Conscious Weddings\u00a0and in my counseling work with clients struggling through the wedding transition. The truth is that any time you\u2019re in a intimate relationship with a real person (as opposed to infatuated with someone who\u2019s not available), you\u2019ll find yourself irritated with your partner. Some of this irritation is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7],"tags":[90,93,99,235,587,697,815,866],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/432"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=432"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/432\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=432"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=432"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=432"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}