{"id":59,"date":"2010-07-29T08:06:37","date_gmt":"2010-07-29T14:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.studioweddenver.com\/?p=59"},"modified":"2010-07-29T08:06:37","modified_gmt":"2010-07-29T14:06:37","slug":"the-search-for-perfection-from-marrying-to-buying-a-house","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/the-search-for-perfection-from-marrying-to-buying-a-house\/","title":{"rendered":"The Search for Perfection: From Marrying to Buying a House"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114 aligncenter\" title=\"conscious bride\" src=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/conscious-bride.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"119\" height=\"171\" \/><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cPerfection is for the Gods; completeness and wholeness is the most humans can hope for.\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 Marion Woodman<\/p>\n<p>One of the most common and pernicious beliefs among my engaged and newlywed clients is that they\u2019re supposed to marry their perfect match. While they may be rationally aware that perfection doesn\u2019t exist, it\u2019s not the rational mind that is activated during the wedding transition, but the fantasy mind. This certainly isn\u2019t true for everyone who marries. There seems to be a segment of the population who sail through transitions with ease; those just aren\u2019t the people who find me. And I would venture to hypothesize that those people aren\u2019t perfectionists in other realms of their life. I think it would be safe to say that at least 99.9% of my clientele over the past twelve years are perfectionists. And that includes me.<\/p>\n<p>To read the rest of this fantastic marriage advice from\u00a0life transition expert\u00a0Sheryl Paul, you can read the full post <a href=\"http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com\/?p=992\">on her blog<\/a>.\u00a0 Conscious Weddings is a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.studiowed.net\/denver\">StudioWed Denver<\/a> vendor.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Sheryl Paul, M.A., is regarded as an international expert in transitions.In 1998, she pioneered the field of bridal counseling and has since counseled thousands of people worldwide through her private practice, her best selling books, &#8220;The Conscious Bride&#8221; and &#8220;The Conscious Bride&#8217;s Wedding Planner,&#8221; her websites, <a title=\"blocked::http:\/\/www.consciousweddings.com\/\" href=\"http:\/\/www.consciousweddings.com\/\">www.consciousweddings.com<\/a>and <a title=\"blocked::http:\/\/www.consciousmotherhood.com\/\" href=\"http:\/\/www.consciousmotherhood.com\/\">www.consciousmotherhood.com<\/a>,and her blog, <a title=\"blocked::http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com\/\" href=\"http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com\/\">http:\/\/conscious-transitions.com.She<\/a> has appeared several times on \u201cThe Oprah Winfrey Show\u201d, as well as on \u201cGood Morning America\u201d and other top television, radio, and newspapers around the globe. Phone and Skype sessions available internationally for all types of transitions. She lives in Boulder, CO and is a member of StudioWed Denver.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cPerfection is for the Gods; completeness and wholeness is the most humans can hope for.\u201d\u00a0\u2013 Marion Woodman One of the most common and pernicious beliefs among my engaged and newlywed clients is that they\u2019re supposed to marry their perfect match. While they may be rationally aware that perfection doesn\u2019t exist, it\u2019s not the rational mind [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10],"tags":[101,234,548,588,754,994,1018],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/denver\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}