{"id":17291,"date":"2018-01-19T20:57:57","date_gmt":"2018-01-19T20:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/?p=17291"},"modified":"2018-01-19T20:57:57","modified_gmt":"2018-01-19T20:57:57","slug":"bridesmaid-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/bridesmaid-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"Bridesmaid Etiquette!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"post-header\">\n<div class=\"post-title\">You\u2019ve been to weddings your whole life, you\u2019ve celebrated the weddings of your own friends, and maybe now it\u2019s time to start planning your own wedding\u2014yet, through it all, there are\u00a0<em>always<\/em>\u00a0awkward etiquette questions surrounding the bridal party that remain unanswered.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"post-content\">\n<p>Look no further; we have researched and compiled some common \u201cbridesmaid etiquette\u201d questions that you might have been scratching your head about\u2026and we have answers. Cringe no more\u2014the only thing you will have to worry about on your big day is looking drop-dead gorgeous and marrying the man of your dreams.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15382\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15382\" src=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Untitled.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Untitled.png 900w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Untitled-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Untitled-650x431.png 650w\" alt=\"Photo from one of our featured StudioWed weddings\u2014Amy Lynn Larwig provided hair and makeup, and the wedding took place at CJ\u2019s Off the Square in Franklin, TN.\" width=\"900\" height=\"598\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">A photo from one of our featured StudioWed weddings\u2014Amy Lynn Larwig provided hair and makeup, and the wedding took place at CJ\u2019s Off the Square in Franklin, TN.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>I just got engaged (Excuse me as I start crying again), and as I start planning my wedding, I know I need to choose my bridesmaids ASAP. Do I have to include someone in my wedding if I was in hers?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember, this is\u00a0<em>your\u00a0<\/em>big day, and you get to decide who participates. Therefore, if you were in someone else\u2019s bridal party, that does not mean they have to be in yours as well. If you feel uncomfortable with the situation, try to include them in the wedding in a different role. In addition, while including your fianc\u00e9\u2019s siblings is a nice gesture, you are not obligated to include them in your bridal party either.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15383\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15383\" src=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/bouquets.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/bouquets.png 900w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/bouquets-300x817.png 300w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/bouquets-650x1771.png 650w\" alt=\"Bridesmaid bouquets arranged by Brocade Designs, a StudioWed vendor.\" width=\"900\" height=\"2453\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bridesmaid bouquets arranged by Brocade Designs, a StudioWed vendor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>What costs am I supposed to cover for the bridesmaids?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You are expected to cover the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bridesmaid\u2019s bouquets<\/li>\n<li>Hotels for out-of-town attendants<\/li>\n<li>Transportation for the bridal party to ceremony and reception<\/li>\n<li>Thank you gift<\/li>\n<li>Bridesmaids\u2019 luncheon, tea, or party (if you are hosting one)<\/li>\n<li>Hair and makeup (only if you want it done professionally)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Your bridesmaids should pay for the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Wedding attire and accessories. This includes the dress (which you will probably pick out), alterations to the dress, shoes and any other accessories.<\/li>\n<li>Transportation to and from the wedding town or city<\/li>\n<li>Gift for the couple (either individually or as a contribution to a group gift)<\/li>\n<li>Share in the cost of a bridesmaids\u2019 gift to the bride (optional)<\/li>\n<li>Bachelorette party attendance cost (optional)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>There are definitely sticky areas, such as hair and makeup and the lodging, but overall, budget and finances should be an open discussion between you and your bridal party. It\u2019s a give-and-take relationship\u2014your bridesmaids accept your invitation to be a bridesmaid with the understanding that there will be a financial obligation, but you should keep your bridesmaids in mind when selecting the dress and shoes. Furthermore, it\u2019s okay to discreetly offer financial assistance to a bridesmaid you know might have trouble covering the costs.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15384\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15384\" src=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/inspiration.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/inspiration.png 900w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/inspiration-300x619.png 300w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/inspiration-650x1341.png 650w\" alt=\"Bridal Shower inspiration from StudioWed\u2019s Pinterest.\" width=\"900\" height=\"1857\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bridal shower inspiration from StudioWed\u2019s Pinterest.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Okay, so my wedding date is approaching, and it\u2019s about time to have a bridal shower (I guess?). Who should host it and how much say can I have in the shower?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Basically, hosting duties can fall to anyone in your bridal party, your mom, or the mother of the groom. Whoever does host it should consult you about a guest list, because if someone comes to the bridal shower they should definitely receive a wedding invitation as well.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, you should discuss the shower with whomever plans it, but try not to be bossy about it\u2014especially regarding the budget. If you don\u2019t want any games, let that be known, but don\u2019t ask for anything that would add unnecessary costs.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15385\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15385\" src=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/cute.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/cute.png 900w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/cute-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/cute-650x433.png 650w\" alt=\"You really can include all ages in your wedding. This wedding was planned by Stunning Events, a StudioWed vendor.\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">You really can include all ages in your wedding. This wedding was planned by Stunning Events, a StudioWed vendor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><strong>Can you just explain the concept of a \u201cjunior bridesmaid\u201d to me?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A junior bridesmaid is typically between the ages of 8-16\u2014to young to be a bridesmaid but too old to be a flower girl. The only official responsibilities of a junior bridesmaid are to attend the ceremony rehearsal and participate in the processional; she does not have to attend showers or contribute to the cost of a group bridesmaids\u2019 gift to the bride. Also, if you don\u2019t want to, you don\u2019t have to include her in the receiving line. As far as where to put her in entrance of the wedding party, you can put her before the maid\/matron of honor.<\/p>\n<p>This is a great way to include younger siblings, cousins, or nieces. They will appreciate your special efforts to include them on your special day.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sources:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.realsimple.com\/weddings\/etiquette\/wedding-etiquette-00100000094464\/\">Real Simple<\/a>, the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bridalguide.com\/etiquette\/bridal-etiquette-qas\/bridal-party-qas\">Bridal Guide<\/a>, and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/cheryl-seidel-\/what-costs-should-the-bri_b_5340418.html\">The Huffington Post<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve been to weddings your whole life, you\u2019ve celebrated the weddings of your own friends, and maybe now it\u2019s time to start planning your own wedding\u2014yet, through it all, there are\u00a0always\u00a0awkward etiquette questions surrounding the bridal party that remain unanswered. Look no further; we have researched and compiled some common \u201cbridesmaid etiquette\u201d questions that you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17291","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17291","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17291"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17291\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/studiowed.net\/nashville\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}